Paradox

I happened to came across a friend after a very long time and we just started talking and recollected the good old days and the fun we had. As we moved on, I was thinking about the days our group spent together for our goals, working hard, having fun, I just miss those days. Some made it from the group and I just felt strange that what we want we do not get; what we get we cannot possess; what we possess we cannot enjoy; what we enjoy does not last long and even when we think it last long, it proves to be boring. Maybe you all are wondering that I just started a Vedantic view of life…believe me friends I am not that frustrated with life nor do I have that pretty bad experience that I start talking about Vedanta.

Being crazy I just thought will spend time in understanding this paradox, ok I wont bore you all with what all I did but the conclusion I came to was that it's the thought flow that rise in mind which leads to this paradox. The chains of thoughts that rise one after the other make one feel happy (ok I just don't want to put all the emotions one can feel here). The thought flows that rise in once mind is the reason for once emotions, so if one can control that flow… do I need to say it? Ok some might be thinking that if I know about it, why I did not control the thought flow? (Form where I have started my writing and where I ended) as said before I am crazy. That's an easy way to say it, let me think about it…

After thinking for a long time I understood that I have no answer for that, all I can came across is that, I will take help of my friend who happened to be therapist, will update your all if he was of any help.