Emptiness

There are times when you do everything but nothing works out, you work day and night, for the dream one has and sacrifice things to make things happen. As years go on and failures come one after the other and you just don't know what on earth is going wrong with you that after putting so much hard work, your life is where it was few years ago.

When you start loosing hope and you look back at your life from past few years you will realize that you did not spend much time with your parents/ brothers/ sisters, things haunt you that you did not spend the small moments of happiness with them in day to day life. You will find yourself in a cross road, where you find your failures around you, relations around you but find oneself miles apart from them.

One will find the emptiness in him haunting, his frustrations, and failures. There is a feeling that comes in that maybe you don't have in you to make it big; maybe you have skills in you but not enough to make into that extra league. At the same time, you may feel that maybe it's the last hurdle and you just need to hang in there and things will start falling in right place after these.

That's the time one feels that they need someone who just listen to them, be an inspiration to them, its just a desperation to fill there emptiness.

What is it that someone should do to over come this emptiness? Getting into a relationship? Or just hang in there so that the things pass on and wait for the things to fall in right place? People say life teaches, what does life teach someone in such a situation where you just lack the answers and don't know what to do. Does one need to find solace in this emptiness? How to come out of this paradox of life at these moments of life?